Healthy relating involves three identities: Partner one, Partner two and the Relationship. Each of those identities has needs to be fulfilled. 

Let’s do a quick check-up:

• How do you think you / your partner are balancing those various (sometimes conflicting) needs?
• How would you rate your / your partner communication skills in the relationship? How much " real listening" is involved?
• How do you and your partner usually resolve conflicts?
• What seems to be missing?
• What is your idea of a good relationship? 
  

 Sometimes we need a bit of external help to enhance, revitalize or even save the relationhip.

Couples counselling

You are unhappy with the way you and your partner relate to each other. And you want to see changes.
I will encourage you to resolve toxic issues through effective communication and interpersonal skills. I will give you the tools you need to develop real intimacy and put in place sound strategies for a rewarding life with your partner. I suggest that you seek help early when you first become aware of potential dangers and you do not let things deteriorate further. Is it time to put your relationship "back on track"? Act today. 

I use the tested principles of EFT "Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy" as well as communication techniques to help you understand what is going on and teach you how to change the "steps of the negative dance" so that you can reconnect in a positive and healthy way.
 

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Premarital Program

Taking the steps towards putting in place a good basis for a healthy relationship.

Congratulations on your decision to commit. I wish to support you in turning great promises into a bright future together: What makes an intimate relationship really work in the long run? This is what we will look at in a 5 session program. In a relaxed and friendly environment I will help you develop the skills necessary for a long-lasting partnership based on intimacy and trust. I will show you how to meet the inevitable challenges of a life together with confidence, how to negotiate any potential hiccups and have fun along the way!